Nearly all women go through some period in their lives when they're swept up by a bad boy. The Navy Seal with the amazing bod and the mental prowess of a fruit plate. The Harley guy with mean beard stubble and an attitude to match. The Josh Hartnett look-alike who makes us feel like the center of the universe, and then puts the moves on our roommate the minute we leave for the ladies room. We can see these guys coming a mile away, and yet we fall for it every time.
Nearly all women go through some period in their lives when they're swept up by a bad boy. The Navy Seal with the amazing bod and the mental prowess of a fruit plate. The Harley guy with mean beard stubble and an attitude to match. The Josh Hartnett look-alike who makes us feel like the center of the universe, and then puts the moves on our roommate the minute we leave for the ladies room. We can see these guys coming a mile away, and yet we fall for it every time.
Ok, who told you about my ex-husband, lol! When we first hook-ed he was a nerd, not in so many words, but he wasn't one of the popular guys. During college, he joined the Masons, that helped prep him up some. Then after we were married, he started doing his own DJ gig on the side. Oh well, that was all it took, he started women and girls of all ages and size wanting to be seen with him. Then came his permanent gig....can you guess where? At a motorcycle club, then his @@@ joins the d@@@ cl more...
Ok, who told you about my ex-husband, lol! When we first hook-ed he was a nerd, not in so many words, but he wasn't one of the popular guys. During college, he joined the Masons, that helped prep him up some. Then after we were married, he started doing his own DJ gig on the side. Oh well, that was all it took, he started women and girls of all ages and size wanting to be seen with him. Then came his permanent gig....can you guess where? At a motorcycle club, then his @@@ joins the d@@@ club (he doesn't own or know how to ride), it was all down hill from that point.
I love seeing a man on a motorcycle and I have seen a lot of women hanging around the clubs and I know just like him, most of the men are married.
But I still love seeing guys on them, especially the ones that do tricks, makes me want a pink one. less...
Never into the bad boys, I think they were too afraid of me...ha, just teasing. They never seemed to have enough substance for anything other than a ONS, if that. Now as Smoosh noted, a man with a motorcycle (or without *wink*)...delish!!
Well....I think to some extent I will always be attracted to the "bad boys" but now I am mature enought to recognize that they will not be enough to satisfy me.
Ummm maybe i did go for them when i think about it...but then maybe those types are the more confident ones who will ask you out whilst the quiter man is still thinking about it??
But turn the tables...any guys out there gone for the BAD girlie? the all smokin, all swearing, all flirting, wild on the dance floor chick? (there must be someone out there that wants me?):-)xx
Somerset Maughn's Philip in "Of Human Bondage" is coming to mind on this thought..xx
I seem to have missed this stage - guess the tough bad boy never really turned my crank.
Although a man with a motorcycle - or without - just the motorcycle - gets my motor cranked.
I'd like to say yes absolutely but I am only human. I did go through that stage when I was younger. The bad boy may have made my heart flutter but you know what? He wasn't reliable nor could I trust him....two MAJOR flaws. These days I don't get so flustered about the bad boys because in the end, most of them will be gone in the long-run (I'm not condemning all of them but definitely most of them).
I do have a great friend that's a bad boy and I've discovered his secret. He acts like a bad b more...
I'd like to say yes absolutely but I am only human. I did go through that stage when I was younger. The bad boy may have made my heart flutter but you know what? He wasn't reliable nor could I trust him....two MAJOR flaws. These days I don't get so flustered about the bad boys because in the end, most of them will be gone in the long-run (I'm not condemning all of them but definitely most of them).
I do have a great friend that's a bad boy and I've discovered his secret. He acts like a bad boy because it makes it easier to keep people (women mainly) at a distance. He never lets them get close enough to hurt him. It has taken us a long time to develop the friendship we have and I'm glad I took the time because he's got a heart of gold under that hard shell of his. I guess I should feel privileged that he's granted me access into his psyche but what kind of life can you have if you never love anyone....or let them love you back? He'll make the right woman very happy someday but I don't see that being me.
Anyway, sorry for getting off the subject but here's my 2 cents worth.
Um, to an extent. I still love nerds, but I like a man that is manly best. A man with sensitivity to communicate his emotions and in the privacy of our dark bedroom snuggle me and hold on to me for dear life, yet a man that is crazy about sports, cars, fixing things, playing cards or working out is sexy. When I was younger I was into the hoodelum types, the hard acting guys. I eventually lost interest in them because the balance I needed wasn't there.
Um, to an extent. I still love nerds, but I like a man that is manly best. A man with sensitivity to communicate his emotions and in the privacy of our dark bedroom snuggle me and hold on to me for dear life, yet a man that is crazy about sports, cars, fixing things, playing cards or working out is sexy. When I was younger I was into the hoodelum types, the hard acting guys. I eventually lost interest in them because the balance I needed wasn't there.
I want a man who is a little sugar and a little spice! less...
